Couples Corner : Who’s the Boss

Rodliz’s Nest

I am certain that when you and your partner treat each other equally, then there would be no boss in the house anymore. And for me the issue of whom would be on top of everything will be set aside if you agree to share it’s either the chores at home or at work. And if that would follow inside of your home, then that would lead to a better and successful marriage.
If the husband does the laundry, doesn’t mean he lessens his being a man. If the wife needs to be the one to bring home the bacon, she must not think that she is already the superior. You see, to have a very successful marriage there should be a constant give and take in regards with the task, house chores and everything. Sharing, understanding, respect is one of those plus factors to have a strong foundation for marriage.
Remember, when there is a certain thing to be fixed at home, you don’t have to call your partner to fix it, if you can, you would. If there is anything to clean up in the messy room, get the broom and clean it. What I mean to say is that, when you see your partner is busy of doing something in your house, you don’t wait for him or her to do all the responsibility in your home, because it is actually you both have the responsibility whatever it is to have a healthy home. And one more thing, get rid of that being bossy, because that would lead to a disastrous relationship.
So to answer the question who’s the boss inside of our home? No one.

9 Responses to “Couples Corner : Who’s the Boss”

  1. chubskulit says:

    Very well said Anne..

    The Boss

  2. Rossel says:

    so true sis. couple should work as a team and should be equal in everything, chores, decision making, etc.

    my cc entry is here.

  3. sheng says:

    Well said…

    No one should really be the boss at home but both shares the responsiblity.

    Happy CC!

  4. Grampy says:

    Great job with this post. Life is meant to be shared. Being married means sharing everything. The good and the bad. Work and play.

  5. chubskulit says:

    Daan ulit ako dito Anne. Or I could say "Labay ako diri", tama ba lol..

  6. Mommy Liz says:

    Tumpak, wala talgang dapat na maging boss, kasi dapat equal. Hay, ako, naiinis kapag may naririnig na ang guy ang laging nasusunod, or ang girl ang mas matapang. kaasar noh?? There are things at home that we do ourselves, and vice versa. Dapat laging i consider ang isa't isa. Di porke siya na ang guy, siya na lahat ng guy stuff, eh kaya mo naman mag martilyo or magbuhat, unless na buntis di ba? hehehe.. Tanggalin ang kaartehan at ang pagiging bossy, kasi eventually magiging si Mister sa mahabang pagtulog, tapos i kick out ka, or si Misis eh magising sa pang aabuso ni mister. di ba??

  7. simply kim says:

    there is no need for the boss in the first place, you have to be a TEAM..

  8. Junneth says:

    One should complement each other! Working as a team. We are equal yet different with distinct roles but we have to communicate our role to one another.
    My CC-Who's the Boss is posted 17. Please do visit if you have time. See you!