Couples Corner : How do we help each other

Rodliz’s Nest

The topic for this Meme is getting hard, for me lol because until now we are still not living in the same roof. Although being miles apart is getting tough for us each day we are not in each others arm, I guess, somehow we are still helping with each other. Helping each other doesn’t mean to be like doing house chores, or who will be the one to cook today or tonight perhaps, there are many ways to help each other even you are just talking online, or when you are in the other world and your partner is in the other states.
Mostly, my husband helps me with Mj’s assignments especially when we have difficulties of her English subject, lol. Because there are times I lost track and I can’t understand the instructions or her quizzes and thank GOD that Terry is always there for us when we have problems with what is the term of this and that.
When he was here and we stayed in a Apartelle so we have to cook for ourselves, I took aback because I just don’t know how to cook special food, really even I have a recipe book with me I just can’t follow the direction and it turn the food into a disastrous. Well he knows about that so I don’t have to pretend I know how to cook but I know how to fried bulad, hahaha and he hate that. Anyway, so he represented and he cooks a very delicious ooops I forgot the name food. So since I don’t know how to cook I just helped slicing the spices and some ingredients.
Helping is a give and take process, even one is working, he/she still have to help in making the home neat and clean. And even he/she is a busy person outside the house, he/she should find some chores to do at home like changing their baby’s diaper or washing the dishes. Being at home is not easy, you have to do all those things, left and right including taking good care of your kids and even your pets, they also deserve some time to rest and wind up outside. So when other is out, you just don’t have to sit around and waited for him/her to come home, sometime even you’re a career person we have to do our part inside the house to make the marriage work forever.
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